I find that they are certain times when I am more likely to wet. Firstly I pee my bed every night and always wear diapers now. During the day I find that when I am near flowing liquid that can trigger wetting, watering the garden, filling the car with fuel, filling the kettle, walking by a stream. It doesn't always happen, but I think the risk is higher. I also sometimes have problems when needing to wait in line. I have not peed myself in the car, but often do it when i'm getting out of the car an before I get to a toilet, perhaps it is to do with sitting down. What situations cause you to have more accidents?