I'm curious to see whether this lifestyle/fetish is genetic or psychological. To find out I ask you to answer as many of the questions below as you feel comfortable answering.
Do you know of anyone else in your family who is a TBDL?
Is being a TBDL just a fetish or a lifestyle choice for you?
Do/did you have a good relation ship with your parents?
Do/did you live with both of you biological parents?
In non-TBDL related thoughts do you get frustrated with the adult world?(Ex: rembering when you didn't have so much responsibility)
Do you have ADD or any related disorders?
What is you/your families socio-economic status?
At what age did you start to have TBDL desires?
At what age/how did you discover the TBDL community online?
What is your TBDL age?
Again if you don't want to answer any of the questions above, then don't.
Also, if you have any questions that you think may help, then please post them.