I currently wear an Abena M4 and I always point it down thanks to all the posts about "Up or Down." But I'm still nervous about having a second or third wetting in bed without changing. Should I reach it and point it up since down below is already filled and wet while lying on my back again? Or should I leave it pointed down and just roll over onto my belly so it flows to the front? Having had enough guts to wet more than once with the Mrs. sleeping next to me but wetting while in bed feels unreal!!!! I love falling asleep to all that warmth.