I am an 18 y/o living just outside of Chicago. The Chicagoland area has a population of 10 million people, so why do I get the feeling I am the only AB/DL here?
Every other site I have been on makes it seem like the only other ABs or DLs in Illinois are all middle aged sex crazed lunatics looking for an easy lay. Whether they are straight or gay they all seem to act the same and are all men. I bring up their gender because my social "group," if you will, predominately female and it is for two reasons: 1) I'm straight so there is always that bit of curiosity of whether or not we would be compatible, 2) girls are better at talking/listening while guys, for the most part, are egotistical and everything will center around them.
My question than, I guess, is: Are there any normal people in the AB/DL community that just so happen to be my age and live in Chicago?