Ok so my gf's mom came to live with us for awhile (long story and irrelevant, don't ask), at first I was thinking how the FK am I going to keep my diapers from her attention the whole time she is here? Eventually, I decided that it's not worth the stress of trying to hide them the whole time (she may be here for a month or so, and no way am I gonna go that long without wearing!).
So, I started hinting about my hobby hoping she would figure it out for herself. Wearing double diapers before bed, the crinkliest diapers I own under pj's in the quiet house in the morning, etc. Today I was out with her for a few hours and I wore a Dry 24/7 and plastic pants, and wet it thoroughly. When we got home I said "I have to go change, i'm pretty much swimming." she
basically ignored me, which leads me to believe she
already knew, cause who wouldn't respond to a
comment like that?
So now she has only been here for about 4 days. I had
asked my gf not to let her mom into our bedroom,
where my stash is located. Well I'm chillin in the living
room and I hear my gf and her mom chatting in the
other room and it dawns on me that they are in our
bedroom. So, in a mild state of panic, I rush in there to
do damage control, and discover that not only is my
gf's mom in our room, but she is in our bathroom
chatting away with my gf.
It couldn't have been a worse time...not only was my
neatly-stacked stash of about 2 dozen new diapers
sitting at eye level on the shelf as usual, but I also
happened to have a new package of Depends sitting
right on the floor in the middle of the closet floor. Worse yet, I had 3 USED (wet) rolled-up diapers that I was just waiting to bag up and take out, lying on the bathroom floor, and my gf's mom was leaning right over them and picking up some laundry (to help out my gf), all while chatting away merrily. Thinking quickly, I half-jokingly pretended to scold my gf about it, asking her "why did you leave your diapers lying around everywhere again?" They both just kind of smirked at me like "whatever dude."
So if her mom suspected before, and she must have, she DEFINITELY knows now. What gets me is how she seems to completely ignore it. Which is ok I guess, although I want to know what she's thinking. I don't want her to assume it's for medical need and so possibly worry, and I REALLY don't want her to make any pedophile correlations in her own mind. I am seriously considering just bringing it up, as in, "About those diapers you saw in the bathroom..."
My gf says I should let it go, that her mom is not the type to care about such things. I'm pretty sure the two of them have not discussed it, though I would rather hae the chance to explain it, before my gf tries and botches it up (she tolerates but really doesn't understand the diaper thing.
what do you think? Should I try to explain myself to my gf's mom? Or just leave it be and hope she doesn't formulate her own negative opinions?