okay a while back i lent my friend from school my expensive UO nerd glasses, and a few days ago i asked if i could have them back. yesterday she said she forgot them in her locker and would just give them to me today.
well today (just my luck) there was a theft in the girls locker bay and some rat took a lot of things from everybody, including her and my glasses. when she tole me about what happened i was upset, saying that if she had just given me them when i had asked her then this wouldnt have happened. and explaining that she should have been more careful with them and not just left them there. and then she lashed out at me, cursing ever few words and there was a lot of animosity. she acted like she wasnt responsible at all for this, and like she doesnt owe me anything for loseing them.
after she told me to f**k off, i later sent a text saying i was sorry i had gotten so upset about it but she still hasnt responded. but thats unimportant. what IS important is what i do now. obviously im going to find the thief and beat the sh*t out of them with a hammer for taking my and her property, but what about us? i dont want to lose her as a friend but i certainly dont think that nobodys at fault here.
what am i supposed to do?