Every time I showed men my webcam when they ask to see me, they always get demanding like they want me to have it on and they tell me how to shift the camera so they can see me better or ask me to do sexual things for them. So I was so glad when it stopped working and couple of them thought I was lying about it. I am thinking about I am going to start lying about having a webcam by saying I don't have one if they ask because I will automatically assume it will get ugly. I have blocked a few in the past because I'd find out they were creepy even though I had been chatting with them for a bit so I know just because someone is on my friends list doesn't make them not creeps. I just don't know they are until the webcam.
I just got a new a computer and it has a built in webcam. Well I decided to use it again when someone asked if he can see it. We signed onto MSN and he invited me to video chat so my webcam works. he gets a little demanding but luckily he listens and doesn't beg me. But the webcam slowed down my computer and I turn it off and I tell him I had to turn it off because it was slowing down the computer. But he keeps trying to get me to turn it on again and he finally backs off after I told him that is why I hate webcams, men get demanding and I was so happy our last one quit working.
I am thinking of lying next time to the next person about having a webcam, even if it's my own online friends or just keep showing them my webcam when they want to see it so that way I will know if they are creeps or none creeps. Why do some men have to act like such creeps when it comes to webcams?
I rarely talk to women online so I have never had this issue with any of them yet.
I asked this on another forum but instead it went off topic and turned into some random chat. But the first person who replied told me most people use the webcam in a sexual way so they assume that is why I have one. Another person said webcam is for cybering. Is this true? Is this why some men act this way?
If anyone is wondering why am I talking to these people. They find me on forums I go to so I am not going to know what kind of people they are. I am not going to know if they are creeps or not. So it's not like I am going to porn sites or to sex sites or cyber sites to find people to talk to. I am thinking now to not show my webcam until we have been talking for a while.
Note: Notice how I said some men? I don't mean all men is why and I don't want anyone to think I mean all men if I said men so I said "some."