Hi there guys!
Soo... I've been here for a while and just wanted to share my story. Don't know why
So about 9 months ago someone told me he might like diapers, and might like to wear them sometime. I tried to stay open minded because... I fancied that guy.
A week or so later we got together. Usually it was quiet on the DL side, but once in a time he got the urgue to try them and looked on the internet for them and so on... but he never dared to.
About 2 or 3 months ago I realized this wasn't something that would go away... And I realized I either really had to accept it or this relationship would be over.. If I couldn't accept it, I couldn't accept him and that would be our break. That was... hard, since I didn't really know how to suddendly really accept it. I decided to join here and search for advice about this (thanks to the people who were nice enough to help me here, you guys really did help us/me!).
We decided to give play dates a try... Since my boyfriend hadn't tried anything yet, we had to start... well, at the start. That was real nice since we both could try out and find out what we wanted/could accept...
After his first play date we found out... I like to be his mom. It feels good to be his mom. And.. well he likes beind a baby, it feels good to be my little baby. I got interested in it too... I mean, I always have been a little girl inside and I got interested in being babied myself too... So I asked him if we could change the roles once. And he wanted to.
Well to make a big story short... We've done that a few times now, we've ordered and tried out diapers now and although we both had problems with using them, we enjoyed it very much. It's great to have this kind of thing in your relationship, it gives it another dimension. It's your little secret (no pun intended) and it makes the both of you really happy.. it's great to do that to each other!
I don't know why but I just wanted to share our story... I mean, I never thought something like AB/DL would exist, then I never thought I could really accept his AB/DL-side, then I never thought we could be together with it... And now I even am actively participating, even having my own play dates and really enjoying it.
And don't get me wrong... I know it will get harder. I know there will come a time that we will come to something that one of us really wants and the other one can't accept... But I know for sure we'll get through that since it's about compromising. It's the keyword for things like this, like I told my boyfriend when he first tried his diaper it would be ok if he messed in them... since it could be a natural response, but I also said I wouldn't really like it and he would have to take care of it himself if he had an accident...