I've actually been wanting to start a conversation like this for a while. After a thread was closed down due to an intro thread being called out and other people taking umbridge, the mod suggested starting a thread here so I took the liberty.
So, I'll start the thread off by suggesting that the line between fantasy and reality can get very blurred. Not just in this forum of course, but in most forums with this theme I think it's safe to say that some posts can send up red flags right away.
And for reference, here is the thread that was shut down. But it's just one of many such threads.