You guys here at ADISC are pros, so I'm going to hold you responsible for my decision.
-=- Cost isn't a big deal-- I'd spend a few extra bucks to get something reliable.
-=- Overnights and dependable, but not too thick and bulky.
-=- Can find online with discreet shipping.
-=- Doesn't leak on sides or up the back when laying down on back and sides-- extended waistbands are awesome.
-=- Hopefully somewhat crinkely-- Noise doesn't matter.
-=- VERY Comfortable and breathable.
-=- Neautrilizes order, but doesn't have a noticible scent to the diaper.
-=- Can be bought easily in amounts around 20.
-=- White and small wetness indicator most favorably.
Brands I've already tried:
Attends with Extended Waistband = My current favorite.
Attends Classic #10
Depends Maximum Fitted Protection
Tranquility Premium Overnight Protective Underwear
I'd also like to point out for anyone that is looking for a dependable seller, I found this guy here at Disposable Medical Express. He is cool and can make your box discreet. This is where I've bought from before, but not a HUGE selection:
Incontinence Products, Adult Incontinence Products, Incontinence Care Products
THANK YOU to whoever has an idea for my critical self.