If someone had interests in diapers but they refused to wear them and have anything to do with it because they felt ashamed about it or bad, are they still considered diaper lovers even though they want nothing to do with it so they don't ever come to the AB/DL community nor ever wear them or look at them but yet they still have the desire to wear but they refuse to have that life style?
What about if someone had the desire to be an adult baby but they had none of the stuff? Are they still an AB?
What if they had the desires to be an AB but refused to be it? Would they still be considered one?
What about if someone has the desire to be a baby and then not be a baby because it came and went, still an AB?
What about with diapers, what if diaper desires came and went, is the person still a diaper lover nonetheless, even if the person had lost interest in it for a while?