So recently, my girlfriend and I took our first baby step (yes, I know...) into the world of mommying and babying for the lack of a better term!
I was pleasantly surprised and delighted when my girlfriend said she'd want to try something with me. She'd hold me in her arms, in such a way that I could curl up, lay my head on her shoulder (or thereabouts) and so that I could hold her. Among other things, she allowed me to suck on her nipples (which made me really calm and content), she called me things like 'her little boy' - which made my heart skip a beat, it was so awesome to hear that, I even asked her what she said only to make sure she did say it. At some point I got scared, started crying telling her not to leave. She told me that 'mommy ain't leaving' which really calmed me down. She looked at me with that loving and caring way about her as she sometimes does, and even kind-of simulated her giving me a bottle (I know, it's a bit contradicting to the breast-sucking).
All went very well, she even told me she liked it. All of this made me REALLY happy.
But here's something... she does let me suck her nipples sometimes, to calm me down when I'm restless or tense. She also holds me in that same way when I'm feeling scared, tense or restless. All of this always calms me down really well.
The thing is that this particular time, that 'regression switch' just flicked itself and I let all my guards down, I felt little, loved in a mommy-baby kind of way and everything she did and said got through to me more than ever.
I wonder how this happens. I honestly had to do nothing, I just 'became' little as if it were a natural thing. I understand I can control it somewhat though, but I'm still not really sure about what's happening here.
Another thing I want to ask is if you guys have any tips on switching up the roles? My girlfriend, still having that child in her prominently present even when she's living her day-to-day life (at least of what I can see), really wants to try to switch it up, making me the daddy and her the baby/little one. I am very, very delighted to do this with her and I'm willing to work at it so she has the best, most pleasant and fun time while doing it. What we were thinking of is having her lay by me, with her blanky and her plushie, maybe even sucking her thumb.
But she wonders how I got that 'regression switch' to go over and she's not sure if she can do it.
I am hoping you great people here can give us a some pointers/tips regarding this subject.
Thank you in advance!