Hi I'm a girlfriend of a "little" and I care for his 2 yr old daughter. I'm also in a wheelchair from a spinal cord injury that left me partially paralyzed. All my woman parts work though and I'm trying to understand and accommodate my boyfriends interests and desires in our relationship.
A little background on us - his screen name is waslost1234abc and you can read his posts basically he is a "little" and has to wear diapers due to complete and permanent incontinence and also enjoys wearing them. I also am incontinent and enjoy wearing them as well. He has discretely enjoyed wearing pjs using blankets stuffed animals bottles and binkeys for his entire life. Looking back i demanded to use a highchair eat baby food and wear diapers up until the age of ten or eleven when i was forced by my parents to give them up. I think I may enjoy partaking in treating my boyfriend as a baby and possibly even enjoy being treated like a baby as well.
My main focus is on becoming familiar with what he likes and attempting to accommodate those desires. Then I'm going to experiment with things I may like.
My request for your advice is on things I could say or do that would make him feel like a child. He has never had anyone interested in fulfilling his desire to be treated like a child so he's uncertain of what to ask of me. Advice that would be appreciated would be either phrases or just words you think he may like to hear or actual physical things I could do to assist.
I've come up with simply calling him baby in a motherly tone, telling him its diaper check time (pulling his pants away from his body) saying "oh my lil baby made a poo-poo" or "No poo-poo this time baby boy". I also ask for him to come sit on my lap then I cradle him and rock him back and forth.
I've thought about changing his clothes for him, putting lotion on him, and/or adding baby powder to his diaper. I'm working on the concept of actually changing his diaper.
If you have any thoughts of what I could do to help him with his desires or what he could experiment doing for me in an attempt to see if I would like to be treated as a baby as well.... please send me your input! thank you thank you!