Ok so I HAVE tried this, and it works, a way to temporarily "untrain" or loose control of your bladder, and when you wet...But enough control to stop it at any time...
While I havent mastered it (parents around too much ) I know it is possible, and doesnt seem to have any long term effects or any cost.
My method is to wet you diaper, or go to the toilet. When in mid stream, relax. At the end, while we are trained to "suck in" and thus stop the flow, what I do, is make myself relax, so that the flow is never stopped, as the bladder muscle has not been closed. See what I mean? Next time you pee, notice atthe end how you have a moment where you "pull in", and the flow totally stops.
If we dont do that end bit, surely the bladder is now left totally open??
When I have tried this, I encountered 2 problems. First, the urge to stop peeing was so strong, it was hard to not close the muscle. Damn training ^^ Also, I found moving harder, as when I moved, I tensed slightly, and that caused me to "suck in" down there and stop peeing..
Anyone else tried this? It seems too simple, but havent heard anything about it. With practice, I managed to wet laying down, which is near impossible for me. The first time my bladder felt all tingly and weird. Now it just is fighting that reflex!
(please be nice!)