Allright, so this is my first real post, and I suppose the topic is fairly suiting for that. I've been thinking alot lately about the best way to safely meet people with diaper fetishes. I've been a member on Diaper Space for a while, but I've been reluctant to put a picture of myself on my page, or use my real name out of the fear that it would somehow come back to bite me. And, as I'm sure most of you can relate, I've pretty well come to terms with the fact that this fetish will not go away. It seems to be every guy's dream to find a girl willing to indulge in diapers with them, and I'm no different. However, this seems to be a very male dominated fetish. The numbers a kind of stacked against us in terms of finding a girl that genuinely enjoys diapers as much as you do. Also, putting the fact that you have a diaper fetish out there while dating random girls will most likely turn out badly.
So I've been thinking of ways to kind of test the water, so to speak, while dating, in order to gauge whether or not you have the right girl to "drop" the news on....ya know, the dreaded, "honey, I like wearing diapers" conversation that some of us have had the guts to initiate. (myself not being one of them)
Maybe after being with a girl for a while, and being intimate, you could ask her to pee her pants for you, and throw that out there as a fetish. (Don't ask me why, but for some reason that seems like it would sting less than admitting to a diaper feitsh).
If she's in to it, then great! It's kind of diaper related and you'll know that she's willing to get kinky for you and enjoy it. I would guess she's the kind of girl that's more likely to be willing to slip into a diaper for ya.
If she's weirded out, then you pull back, say no problem, and then you'll know where she stands on the kink-o-meter.
Also, if the pee thing completely grosses her out, and you wind up breaking up with her, then at least she'll just be telling people that you have a pee fetish and not a diaper fetish (again, to me, a pee fetish just seems to be a bit more dignified and accepted than a diaper fetish, don't ask me why).
What are y'alls thoughts on this? Is this too manipulative?
Any one tried something similar?