I have seen posts on this although no straight answers, I agree with many people this is an intimate thing, and it would take a certain amount of commitment.
I am extremely interested in finding a carer, or being one. I just don't know how to get the process started.
I am a guy and there is certain sexual aspect to it all, although my AB side always rules over sex, guess I know where my brain is.
When I bring this up it makes most women run like hell, just want to find one that doen't think its weird or strange, I'd always be up for switching roles, gotta be fair