I'm planning on ordering diapers soon and I'm still having a bit of a hard time deciding what to get. In my experience, I've tried Abena Abri-form M4's they were a little big on me (the top tapes would almost touch each other), but they were just dreamy. Other than that I haven't really had any top of the line diaper. I ordered those Abenas from drugstore.com just because they have some pretty good deals and had a promotion for free 2-day shipping when I bought them.
Now I also want to try ABU Cushies, SDK, or the new BMX, but each product seems to be borderline with my waist size (32"), but in any case I know where to order those. Cushies and SDK come minimally at 32" waist size, but does that mean the top tapes are going to touch (I kinda don't like that)? And the BMX diapers - they come in either small or large, no medium, but the small size maxes at 30" which is under my size.
I'm also considering Abena Abri-forms. I want to try the small size, but I don't know if I'd just waste my money on those because they might be too small and uncomfortable (also not as thick and absorbent as medium).
Admittedly I have tried Molicare normal or something medium sized that I bought from a medical supply store. I don't know if they were the best thing that Molicare offers, but they had tears in the back of the diaper that caused major leaks. So I either don't want to go there again, or give it another shot - but Molicares are kinda expensive.
Okay, to break it down this is what I'm looking for (by priority):
- Something thick
- Worth the money spent
- Sold in packs - not cases
- Plastic Cover
- "Cloth-Like" only if it is top of the line absorbent (only because I might consider wearing 24/7 under clothes and want to be very discreet about it)
- Cute (baby-like if you will, but mind you it is lowest on the priority list)