I just came out of the diaper closet for the first time. I told my wonderful gf of over a year about by fetish. I was growing depressed because I just couldnt tell her and i knew i had to. I'm planning to propose next year which she cant wait for it , she wants me to just do it already lol. She could tell i was unhappy and finally last weekend I finally came out n told her.
I was so scared since I had lost a previous relationship because of it. I gave her all the usual information out there n she has been very understanding. My question is how to make it work long term. I have this fear that some how in the future it will not work out because of this.
Since telling her she has been very accepting but is having a hard time wraping her head around it. She had me put one on the next day, and said I was still was sexually attractive to her but she had a hard time with the fact that i actually use them. SHe kind of freaked out the day after that. I could tell it was bothering her. so we kept talking and she said she could not stop thinking about it etc. SHe decided the only way to help her was for her to see them more. Then the following night she told me to put one on and as i got it out, she jumped out of bed and put it on me. SHe said it was alot easier then the first time but its still something she doesnt understand and what not.
I was just wondering if anyone is in a relationship with a non ab/dl and has made it work and for any advice or tips about it , sorry for the long story.