My dad had to have his prostate removed due to cancer & in doing so they could not spare the nerves so he is now going to be incontinent. He is a suborn SOB & professed up & down that he would never wear a diaper. I am so tempted to send him a link to XP medical I tell him that this is where I get my supplies. My IC is rare & only pops up when my herniated disc acts up & thankfully it has been years (knocks on wood). no one knows I now wear them as a kink when I am not in real need of them. I am just not sure how he would react to something like this. We do have a real good relationship so I think he would not be weird about it. He was totally cool about it when I told him i was gay. just dunno if the diaper thing would take it to far.