I am not an AB nor am I a DL which is what brings me to this site to begin with. I have been seeing this guy who after about a month of dating told me about his interest in AB/DL, I was floored. He told me over text as we were talking about our fantasies and I didn't even know what it was until he told me to wiki it. It all seemed like a bad dream as I am completely ignorant to this. I've been scouring the interwebs looking for information on this and it has been another month until I found this site.
He expressed how important this is to his life so I have been trying to understand it more, I just don't know anything. He also said it is so important to him that he would not be able to date someone who isn't at least a little interested in AB/DL. We haven't approached it physically as we are long distance at the moment and I am really dreading the day we do.
I need to stress how much I'm trying not to offend anyone, like I said, I am entirely ignorant which is why I come to all of you! It is all very foreign to me but the more I learn, and the more I read, the more okay with it I am. I feel bad even passing judgment on him but it is all so weird.
You guys must have something helpful to tell me, your 'coming out' story even? How did your significant other react? Did they grow into the idea or have many relationships ended because of this?
Oh please help!