My husband told me about a year ago that he is a DL. Originally he told me that he simply liked to wear them every once in awhile at night, a few months later, after I asked him many questions about it and even wore one myself to try and understand, he told me that he likes to urinate in them. Even later after that it was things like how its hot when I wear them and that he is turned on by it. This all comes up after months of lying to me about it after I ask him, then outta know where he tells the truth. I have had my faults with this in the past and even now I guess it kinda gets me because I look at him as such a "manly man" and to switch from that viewpoint to suddenly seeing him in diapers is very difficult for me... plus I didn't even know this existed until he told me, and I also don't want it to HAVE to be a part of our sex life in order for him to be aroused. Honestly for me I guess I don't mind wearing them so much because it turns him on and I end up getting that "extra" attention, which is cool, but when he does it it just makes me feel like... Geez I have already got three kids that I am with ALL day long (I am a stay at home mom) I don't need another when it comes to the bedroom I guess. Anyone have some ideas on how you or your spouse "came around" to this?