I recently revealed to my boyfriend of 4+ years my fetish. While I'm ecstatic that he's nonchalant about it, I guess I still behave as I did when it was a secret. He has now offered to pick up my orders from the desk (I live in an apartment complex), and even seems like he would be fine with opening them and putting them away. I realize that this is a dream come true for many people here, but I don't feel that way. I'd prefer that, for now, my fetish and what I do with it remains my business.
Sorry for the long intro, but this is my distilled question to y'all: How do you manage coming out to an S.O. who may be a bit more open to it than you planned?