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    Okay, so I am simply curious about the whole diaper fetish thing. My boyfriend told me last night that he has one and I just don't understand it. He doesn't really want to talk about it much yet, so I'm trying to research up on it a bit. I've already found that it's not something that's very rare, just something I've never heard of.

    If you guys could just kind of give me a general idea about what it entails for different people, that would be fantastic.

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    For me, I enjoy wearing a diaper and being cared for like a baby/child. It is a way to relieve stress, to feel a strong intimate connection to my carer.

    I also enjoy the comfort and safety entailed when wearing.

    However, there's a spectrum to abdl, so not everyone will be involved at the same level as me.

    Hope this helps, I'll follow this thread if you need more help.

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    Hi Jete, if you scroll up to the top of the page you'll see a link called "Articles" that should give you a good idea of what it's all about. If you search paraphilic infantilism on Wikipedia, you also get some good info from a neutral point of view. Good luck with your relationship and I hope this new-found info does not sever anything!

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    Going by simply knowing that he has a diaper fetish, that means that he has a sexual attraction to wearing diapers. some people use them, some don't. He didn't say if he is into being cared for as a baby, so I assume he is just a Diaper Lover (DL) hope this helps you, have a nice day! Also, good for you for taking the time to get to know about it! and going as far as signing up on a forum like this to ask questions. If you have anything else to ask about ABDL then feel free to.

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    Diaper fetishes are different for everyone. Some people like being babied, others like only diapers, and many enjoy both. Whatever your boyfriend's diaper fetish variation is, be accepting towards him, as the world can be quite unaccepting to AB/DL people. Thank you for researching AB/DL before coming to any conclusions about how you feel regarding your boyfriend's fetish, as many people would be unaccepting and weirded out.

    Here are some articles and websites that you should look at if you haven't yet:
    http://www.adisc.org/forum/content/1...d-diapers.html
    http://www.adisc.org/forum/content/1...fantilism.html
    What? Andys Crib
    Understanding Infantilism
    When Kids Love Diapers

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    Quote Originally Posted by jetemanque View Post
    If you guys could just kind of give me a general idea about what it entails for different people, that would be fantastic.
    I think you will find that the people here and their interests revolving around diapers to be as unique as the general populations interest in anything from sports to music.

    I for one am a conservative Christian with right leaning political views, while others are die hard atheists and live to attack the very belief in God I hold dear as well as socialists, perhaps even a communist or two.

    Around here it isn't even safe to say that diapers are a constant as some wear them and others have no interest. The only solid piece of advice I can give you is that it seems quite a few of us struggled with accepting this divergence from the norm. Being there for him and assuring him that you will try to be open minded and accepting of this part of his psychological makeup may spark a deeper relationship than you could imagine, and you will have the rare privilege of getting to know a part of him that most of us struggle to keep from a cold and cruel world which seeks to label us as freaks and propel us to the rank of pariah.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jetemanque View Post
    He doesn't really want to talk about it much yet
    We have plenty of articles which give a general overviews of this but if you really want to know what makes him tick you will need to talk to him about it, eventually he may open up a bit more and then you can have a proper discussion about what he likes; it will be different for all of us so it is difficult to put us in a box.

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    well we are just a group of normal people with something in common (which is probably why you havent heard of this before since we try to keep this side of ourselves private) youll find that as you look through here that we arent very different than everybody else, we just enjoy diapers for one reason or another. for some of us its a sexual thing and for others its not. just talk to him, ask him questions just keep an open mind and remember that he is still the same guy now its just that you know a secret about him.

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    Honestly? There are many things that could be contributed to why he likes diapers. I myself enjoy them because they A: Make me feel safe. B: It feels REALLY good to wet your diaper(I know that some people don't understand this, but it's a very cool feeling for people like me.) C: My boyfriend enjoys them too ^_^(Another fetish that we share is never bad) D: Simple laziness ^_^(Another thing me and my boyfriend share :P) and I guess lastly because it's an awesome stress reliever

    I'm glad to see you on here asking questions about it instead of trying to get your boyfriend in to a psychologist or something. It's really not something that needs to be fixed and for most of us it's not really a problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jetemanque View Post
    Okay, so I am simply curious about the whole diaper fetish thing. My boyfriend told me last night that he has one and I just don't understand it. He doesn't really want to talk about it much yet, so I'm trying to research up on it a bit. I've already found that it's not something that's very rare, just something I've never heard of.

    If you guys could just kind of give me a general idea about what it entails for different people, that would be fantastic.
    As has been stated here already, the level of interest can be incredibly deep or incredibly shallow, depending on the person. It's a wide spectrum, and would take a great wall of text to cover all of it.

    The best thing you can do for him is be supportive and encourage him to talk more about it. Right now, I think his unwillingness is rooted in his fear that you will reject him for it.

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