I read a few similar threads, and as someone who enjoys wearing and wetting in public I thought about how it can be done in a decent way without going to jail or creating awkward situations for non-abdl people who happen to see your diapers, etc.
When I go out, I usually pre-wet. If not I change in a public washroom or store changing room. I find that if you're looking to get a thrill from showing your diapers off, JUST CHANGE IN THE WASHROOMS!
This way, you:
-cannot be labelled a pervert for bending over in the baby aisle to reveal your pamper or any other way you decide to show your diapers off.
-get in trouble with security, etc
-offend anyone, as it IS the washroom and it IS the place to change a diaper.
The biggest rush for me is walking to the garbage with a wet rolled up goodnite. But am I doing anything wrong? NOPE! I also sometimes sit in a stall when I legit have to go and if I'm wearing a goodnite, I pull it down to my ankles. If anyone looks and sees? Guess what? YOU WERE LOOKING UNDER A STALL!
Try explaining how you saw it to security. The person/people who had to peek to see it are more at fault than someone wearing a diaper.
Just some food for thought. It's a safe way to feel a bit exposed with your diapers, but in a safer way. Other than that, I'd never dare loosen my pants/raise my t-shirt in public etc as to me, that's bad news bears.