As everyone in the *B/DL community knows many people have experienced a strong urge to tell their friends, family, and loved ones, about their desires. I myself have experienced this urge and from lurking on *B/DL sites for almost 7years I think most other people have too.
My question to members knowledgeable of other fetish communities is this: Is the urge to tell other people about their fetish as strong in those communities as it is in this one? Is the urge stronger/weaker? If so do you have any guesses as to why this is?