Here's the situation.
I wear diapers for both personal and utilitarian reasons. I don't diaper 24/7 unless it is for personal gratification which is not that common.
But I do like to diaper while at work, which is 8 hours a day. But only if I know that I'm gonna be stuck at my desk like a vegetable doing programming for hours on end. I wear many different hats at my job and sometimes I have to be out on the floor around all my other co-workers.
At home I don't need to hide the fact that I'm wearing, but at work I want a decent level of discreetness. At first I did it on a whim to see if I could get away with it, psychological thrill... And then I realized how much more I could get done if I could just whiz a little in a diaper until I was comfortable again and continue working.
Currently what I have been doing is wearing those horrendous store-bought Depends. I didn't realize how inferior they are until I got some Tena samples. The Depends were easy as hell to conceal with loose fit jeans and t-shirts. I wear an ESD smock as I work in an ESD sensitive area, which only comes down to halfway above my butt. I may only wet three or four times in eight hours, and I simply know better than to drop deuce at work.
Alternatively I will wear the "bondage" style pants the skater-punk kids will wear. Which is appropriate as I am a former surfer, punk, alternative kind of guy. These are great because the chains rattle anytime you move, impossible to pick up any rustle from a diaper underneath them. It's great cover, but I can't wear them every day.
My problem is that I got some decent diapers. I aquired some Tena "Uber-X Nights", not sure what the actual name for them is, samples from the pharmacy, tried them out and they'll take a full bladder and then some more. Which is great! The Depends were borderline after two "relief" wettings, and I'd have to change at lunch time which isn't easy to pull off without detection. I'm really going to punish those suckers this weekend to see what they can handle. But I digress.
My main issue with the Tena is that they start out about the same thickness as the Depends, but you get them wet and they start to bulk up real fast. Concealment is now more of an issue. I was expecting today to be programming like a goob again, but got pulled out to the floor to do some RMA work. I noticed today that I walk a little different with the Tena's as opposed to the Depends. But I don't think anyone else was picking up on it. If they did I don't think "Oh, he's wearing diapers!" was what they were thinking.
How do you guys manage wearing really bulky ones like the Abena X-Pluses on a daily basis?
My goal: One diaper a day for 8 hours, with moderate profile, able to take 4-5 small to medium wettings over the course of those hours. The "Maximum Absorbency" Depends don't cut it.
Any suggestions or further contributions on how to conceal being diapered, how to execute a covert diaper change at work, etc., would be appreciated greatly.
Thanks in advance.