I guess that there are lots of threads about telling your parents / partners that you need to wear diapers.
I am in a different situation here.
I have been wearing 24/7 for the last year.
I wear pads in the daytime and diapers at night time. I have a really loving wife who is very supportive and comes to doctors appointments etc.
Telling her about my increasing incontinence problem a year a go was really hard and putting diapers on in front of her took some getting used to. A year later it doesn't seem that bad and she doesn't comment when washing my waterproof pants or stretch pants for my pads.
I have two kids (one 7 and one 3) and I am doing absolutely everything I can to keep them away from my diaper wearing.
They both know that Daddy is poorly as they have to stay at home with a baby sitter when I go to the hospital.
After discussing my health issues with my wife we both agreed that they should not find out about my need to wear diapers.
I would love to know what you think, are we doing the right thing or should I be more open with them?