This week I'm ordering diapers online for the first time. I have some questions; How do the Cushies compare to Abena's in thickness & absorbency? What website is the most discreet? How do the transactions appear on the bank statement? Which websites have provided the bst service? Which websites provide the worst service? Are there any adult diapers more thick than the Abena? Have the stores in your areas stopped carrying anything but the adult style pull ups?