In my profile I said it all as follows: I am so fortunate to be married to a wonderful woman who shares and embraces being an ABDL with me as well, she is AB. She is known as PinkJammies on this website. We are very happily married and would not be together without the grace of God. I work a regular job for a living and nobody who knows us would ever suspect either of us of being ABDL. It is important to note that being an ABDL is desert in our marriage, not the main course. We love to engage in it, but only when "Ozzie and Harriett" are alone and there is no more daily business to worry about. To those out there who long for the perfect spouse who also happens to be an ABDL, it is not impossible. Keep looking and praying. Being an ABDL as you know is not for most people and should be approached cautiously for those who want to share it with a significant other. In case you are wondering, I met my wife through another ABDL website a few years ago. We didn't need something like E-Harmony... and dating sites like that probably would not be a good place to find someone like-minded in an ABDL fetish in the first place.