I have been posting a ton lately and am probably starting to get annoying lol! But I have another question. One thing that I've always felt is that I need to be held. Whether by a girl or guy, I intensly, and not sexually in any way, am gratified by being hugged. I feel safe, warm, and loved. When I am with my girlfriend, I have her put her arm around me, the guy, most of the time. It makes me feel safe I guess, a feeling which diapers also provide, that feeling of security. Additionally, after sex I ALWAYS need to cuddle with the girl and just in general I'm a very snuggly person which I believe is related to my AB/DLism. As embarrassing as it is, I actually sleep better while holding a stuffed animal and have taken up doing that every night as well.
Do you find yourself wanting or needing even to be hugged? What feeling do you get out of it, a feeling of love and or security?
Just overall explain your thoughts on the topic of physical affection through hugging, cuddling, etc