Well I've been with my fiancee romantically for 5 years already, (since we where 16) We have been trough a lot and every moment of it we know each other as AB's. What I"m thinking is that the reason or one of them.... the reason we stayed together simply was the fact that if we broke up we wouldn't just break up with a romantic interest we would lose much more then that, we would lose a Mommy/Daddy, A baby and a romantic interest. It's really awesome that this has helped us with dealing with our emotion being there for one another and just coping with stress and what not. I feel closer to her then possible because we are close and love each other in many different ways. So what about you other AB couples?