This has me quite confused. I keep hearing here and elsewhere, the idea of being an ABDL being considered a fetish. It's almost always referred to as a fetish. I don't understand why, because from what I've observed and my own experience, it's not sexual at all for the majority.
It's the same thing with furries. "Furry" is also usually called a fetish, even though it's more of a subculture thing than anything else.
I don't have a problem if people have a fetish or whatever, it just confuses me that these things are constantly referred to as fetishes when they aren't always. Why is this?