Okay, so for a while I've been diaper deprived. Why? Not because I haven't been able to order diapers, but... well, actually yes, it's because I haven't been able to order diapers, for the reason that Bambino discontinued all of their small sizes, and I worry that I might be too skinny for the Medium size, so I haven't been able to get diapers.
So I'm asking 2 things:
What diaper is a good alternative to Bambinos? And please, don't recommend anything like Abena X-Plus, Secure Personal X-Plus, Dry 24/7, Molicare, Tena, Depend, etc. Why? Because, while I'm not a TB, I dislike these diapers for the reason that they all have this Medical-ish aspect to them not only with their names, but their appearance, with the wetness indicators, placing the sizing on the diaper itself, and just it's overall look that draws me away from them. I don't want to be wearing something that looks like it came straight out of a hospital, nursing home, or nuthouse. I want a diaper that looks like, well, a diaper. I'd even take baby designs even though I'm not a TB.
So, the first thing I ask is: what diaper is there that is a good diaper, comes in size Small, but doesn't have that excessive medical markings all over it. And I don't care whether or not it's cloth or plastic backed, but it MUST be a real diaper, with tapes, not some frilly-floofy-granny-panty pull-up shit. Actually, no pull-ups at all. Must have tapes. I also would like it to be white, like a real diaper.
Pretty much the closest I've come to a Bambino alternative is Secure Personal Care Xplus, but even that is too medical-ish for me. Even how the name has "care" in it.
My second question: How would someone who fits perfectly into size small Bambino diapers (aka, myself) fit in a medium size? Would it be excessively large on me? I mean, Depend classifies Small and Medium in the same size (as S/M), and I fit perfectly in the Fitted Maximums (though I don't want those again ). I've also heard somewhere that Bambino's mediums have gotten smaller, but I'm not so sure about that. Sure, ordering a sample pack can give me my answer, but the thing is that if I do order a sample pack, and they are both too big, that's 2 diapers that have no use whatsoever.
Same question applies to ABU's diapers. How big are their mediums compared to Bambino's smalls?
I wouldn't have to deal with this fucking mess if Bambino just kept their smalls in production. But unfortunately because the old stereotype of ABDL's being smelly old fat-asses really follows, and that smaller TB's aren't able to order online, they are unable to keep them in production.
Any help is appreciated. Sorry for the long-as-fuck post.