So I recently told my wife of my diaper interests (married 3 years now). First I mentioned I wanted to wear a onesie, a week later a diaper and few days after that I told her I want her to change me and she could wear with me (if she feels like trying).
We have had a few conversations over the last few days and she feels overwhelmed about the whole thing. She said that I threw a lot at her in a short amount of time and she needs time to process it. 3 nights ago I told her I will not wear to bed until she understands it and is ready.
Last night I explained that i did not want to break my promise but, really wanted to wear. I explained that diapers and AB regression are my way of dealing with stress from work (I going a bit crazy at the moment and she knows it).
She agreed to let me wear to bed but, she doesn't feel comfortable yet of participating in any way. I was a bit sad with the news but want to give her time to understand. I figured if I did not wear that she would forget about it and not try to understand it and work with me. I really want her involved with AB and hope we can share it together.
I am in need of some more advice on how to make her as comfortable as possible. She is a great girl and she does take time with things to fully understand them (she informed me of this) and I have never dealt with an issue with her that required a long thought process...