I'm not sure if this is the appropriate place for this but I need feedback. Its the end of the semester and I have a week of classes left and a week of finals. I have 5 finals to study for, 2 papers to do, and my normal weekly reading to do. Now my girlfriend keeps insisting that I drive down to her house sometime this week to do something with her. As much I would prefer to see her than do my school work I need to finish the school year strong and I keep telling her I need to do my work. Am I just being a douche for telling her no or do I have a valid argument?