We have an older lady next door who lost her husband last year about this time. Her kids are all over the country so they don't get to visit her much. My wife has become a good friend to her, and I have been helping her with a few minor repairs around her house. I guess she comes over to visit my wife alot when I am at work.
Well today (Sat.), I was watching sports on tv in my favorite chair, with my wife sitting on the sofa folding some of my diapers that she had washed this morning (I use the "Purity" flat diapers that my wife folds just right for me). Well, in walks "Sally". My wife told me latter that Sally had called asking if she could come over for some sugar. When I saw her I panicked because of the diapers all over the sofa. My wife saw the look on my face and with a smile said "don't worry, it's alright". Sally is very friendly so she sat down for a chat right next to a stack of folded diapers. I almost died!!
Sally saw my look also and asked if anything is wrong? I couldn't get a word out, so my wife answered her. He's panicking because you are seeing his diapers. She just started laughing and said, "Oh that, I have known about your diapers for months now, it's no big deal. My husband used them for over a year before he died. I told (my wife) that I wish I had known there were good cloth diapers like these available for adults because we spent a lot of money on bad paper diapers that leaked alot".
Well I didn't know what to say or do while my wife and Sally talked about other things. Eventually Sally and my wife went to the kitchen to get the sugar, and then she left. When my wife came back, I asked how she found out and why didn't you tell me she knew? Here I have been around her for months and she knew about me wearing diapers? My wife said "it is ok, don't get upset, as she said, she is ok with it. She came over just like today one time, and saw diapers on the sofa. I just told her that you need them for nighttime, and then she told about her husband, and everything has been alright. I didn't want to tell you because I knew it would upset you and you would be embarrassed to be around her because of it. And you help her alot. To her it is just normal. So don't act any different because of it. OK?"
Well what do I do now? How can I act normal around Sally with me knowing that she knows? I don't know if I can. How would you (Adisc) act if this happened to you?