This question, however broad it might be, is simple enough: If you've told anyone about being *B/DL, how did it go over?
I have had mixed experiences. Upon being discovered by having my stash discovered, I had to confess to my parents... It didn't go over well, AT ALL. Enough said... See my old thread on it if you care. On the other hand, when my sister caught me wearing a diaper, I had to give her a basic explanation of DLism to her, and it did go pretty well. (If you're interested, I wrote two threads as it happened.) I have told one real-life friend, who said that he thought it was weird, but that he had heard of stranger things. (Pretty decent reaction; we are still friends.) I think I'm very close to telling my girlfriend... we do not have sex,* but we are very close, and I don't feel right not being honest.
*Too much unnecessary information? Sorry, but it really isn't.