Oh goodness, I've been called out as a lurker. Im a quiet easy-going professional in my 30s and I have been a DL as long as I can remember. I was easily potty trained as a kid and have regretted it ever since! Quick 'about me': I enjoy the outdoors, traveling, and a quiet evening home... Anyway, i joined so I could see others' experiences and not feel alone. It's wonderful to see the supportive community here.