Recently I worked with about thirty other people to set up a major fund raising event for our organization. Because I knew I was going to get my clothes dirty I didn't wear my usual "diaper" jeans, but a pair of jeans that were comfortable and large enough to fit over them. However, my diapers are large enough to come up to my elbows and cover my belly button, so they stick out the top of those jeans. I wear large T-shirts to cover that, but sometimes (like when erecting a tent) one has to lift one's hands high over one's head and the top of the diapers get exposed. That happened to me, though I didn't notice at the time because I was working hard like everybody else to get things done! I'd chosen to use my large diaper pins with pink plastic covers for the head and they show through the plastic pants. Since most of my co-workers know I wear diapers I can forget being worried about anyone noticing. That day several volunteers noticed and I got the usual "I noticed but I'm not saying anything" and "how gross!" looks, and a few discrete and acceptable questions. The three co-workers I share an office with fielded more questions than I did. But I did overhear one comment I never expected to hear. A very attractive young mom of two children, one a toddler, who works closely with my co-worker, after asking her if she knew I was wearing diapers and plastic pants made this comment: "How cute! It's like having a big little guy walking around!" I have to admit, in my 47 years of being incontinent, that's a first!