I am currently in a delicate situation and would appreciate any advice from you all. Basically i have been going out with my girlfriend for close to a year now and in the beginning she would do all kinds of ABDL stuff with me as we both liked it. She would wear often do baby stuff with me and we used to have really good and happy times. Then 2-3 months after moving in with me because she had no place to live she started to stop doing some of the stuff we used to, I was putting this down to the binge purge cycle cause we all go through it.
Then a few days before new years we found out that she was both pregnant and had a miscarriage on the same day and we lost our baby which is a tragedy. So about 2 months later she talks to me by text saying that she doesn't want anything to do with the ABDL stuff and does not want any of it in her life.
I don't know if it is because of the miscarriage or she has changed she will never tell me the reason just that she don't want it. She still loves me and wants to be with me and I do her it's just that I now feel I have to suppress all my desires out of fear of upsetting her.
I don't suppose that anyone has any experience with this but does anyone have any advice on what I can do?