So anyone who's hung around for a bit and has read my posts knows that I'm pretty comfortable and open about being an ABDL. Most of my friends know, my boyfriend is a 24/7-wearing DL himself, and I have no qualms about wearing in public and whatnot.
And now another friend knows.
So I was hanging out with a group of friends last night (we get together pretty much every Monday night). I grabbed my laptop from my bag and inadvertently left it open. Later, my laptop was about to die, so I went for the power cord, and in my haste, I just tossed my bag aside as I plugged in the lappy. Amongst the things that fell out of my bag when I tossed it aside were the two Abena X-Pluses that were in there. Although many of my friends know, I normally don't try to show off my diapers or anything like that. Turns out that one of my friends in that group actually didn't know, as I learned when he asked me if those were diapers in my bag.
My answer? Just a flat, "Yes.". I didn't get nervous, didn't hesitate, didn't freak out. I'm actually a bit surprised by myself, and honestly, a bit proud of myself too. The last couple of times I've been caught, I was a bit nervous when I admitted what the deal was.
This time, though, it was so easy. And here's the trick-just like when one comes out of the closet as gay, people really do take their cues from you. If you treat it like some big shameful secret, others will too. That's how it was the first few times I came out of the diaper closet. If you're calm and relaxed and act like it's completely normal, then others won't make a big deal of it. Even the last couple times when I was a bit nervous but honest, I wasn't met with disapproval or concern or anything. Instead, they asked a few questions, the sort asked from genuine curiosity.
So why did I post this? I feel it's worth sharing with those who are concerned about being found out or about telling someone. Hopefully someone can take some solace from it!
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