At what age did you guys accept yourself as being an AB, DL, etc. Like when did you stop with the whole "this is horrible I am never going to do this again I'm disgusted with myself" to finally saying "I'm an AB etc, so the hell what. It's who I am"
I could say for myself I accepted myself this year at age 18 where I feel comfortable with my identity. I know as an earlier teen I was repulsed by my desires as many others were too and adisc helped a lot. This is not a when did you find out you were not the only one rather when did you accept it and stopped fighting it.