This is my reaction to several post I have read over the net (including this site). They state that one should do their best to conceal, and hide their diaper in public. They also state that one should definitely not mess themselves while out and about. Some have even went as far to say that one should represent all the other DL's out there and be secretive. Well, I totally understand why one would want to be discreet, or not mess while wearing a diaper in public, and I think that is fine. As well, I think one should obey the laws. Running around in nothing but a diaper is illegal in a lot of places, and the law should be respected. However, for those who enjoy a thick diaper with a pair of tights on go for it!!! I do. One of my greatest joys is being out in public noticeably diapered and sometimes I even smell like poo. This is who I am, and I am not going to hide. "Represent other DL's" What? So we should all hide in secrete and be ashamed of ourselves? I have done that for most of my life. No more! I love who I am. I am not hurting anyone by being a bit smelly and noticeably diapered. Really, should a gay man not act gay in public? Should a drag queen stay at home? What is the difference? I have a right to be myself. Like i said earlier, if it is not for u that is cool, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with expressing oneself. It is great that we live in a place where people can go out in drag, diapered or whatever. Sure many will think it odd, and even get offended. Hell, would not the world be so boring if we all let that stop us. Be yourself!!!