So I have kind of a morbid question to ask... I know we all have our little stash of ABDL paraphernalia. I keep quite a large stash of diapers and thats about all, but i there are some people that have babyish clothing, pacifiers, plastic pants, etc. I have decided not to tell anybody about my fetish, and thats the way i like it. I wish to keep it to myself (except my GF, who knows and sometimes indulges me. but thats another thread). my question is this:
If you were to die suddenly, God forbid, how can you keep your dignity? You die, your family goes through your belongings and finds huge amounts of ABDL stuff stashed away, then they put 2 and 2 together. Instead of being remembered as a stand-up person, those closest to you remember you as a dirty fetish lover, or something. Not that they would necessarily call you that, but, you know, worst case scenario.
Obviously the best way to do clean out you "stash" would be have some sort of person who knows you are a AB come and remove your stuff before the family can get to your place. there are also problems with this- My girl is the only person who knows and she could do it, but what if she and i are both stranded, presumed dead, on a desert island? I guess I was wondering if there is a fool-proof way around this problem?
And by the way- I am really sorry to be bringing up a potentially sad topic, but it has been eating away at me, and is defiantly food for thought. That being said, I hope you all out there are safe and padded!