Admittedly the answer may be buried in another thread somewhere on this site, but I really don't feel like digging around for it. Now then, on to the question.
I'd like to start wearing daily, but there a few very specific concerns, and frankly, I have no idea what the best way is to handle them.
First and foremost is mobility. My job requires me to be not just on my feet all day, but also entails running, crouching, bending, kneeling, crawling over and under things and, because I believe life is better with flair, dance steps here and there(I'm the Jack of my crew). Thats just at work, I have a 1 mile walk there and back as well. I have no idea what, if any kind of diaper would put up with all of that.
My second concern is strange, even for me. A female coworker and I have a very peculiar relationship. She emotes in "cat" fairly often, licks me on occasion, and is absolutely convinced that I'm a werewolf. For my part I tend to just go with her fantasies, it makes life more interesting, and it helps the day go by faster. The down side is that she gets what are apparently uncontrollable urges to smack me on the ass about 4 times per shift, you can see the problem here. Now in her case she may be "down" with the whole diaper thing. We tend to talk very nonchalantly about our kinks and perversions. Diapers however have not yet come up, its a bit more touchy than favorite sex toys and wild exploits. Though now that I think about it, really not that different. I may tell her, I may not, I'm on the fence about it for now.
So, I need a highly comfortable diaper with good mobility, and that doesn't scream DIAPER if struck, although that may be the best way to break what little ice is left in our friendship. As far this criteria, lets pay more attention to the first concern, the second will just be bonus points.