I am a fairly new member here at ADISC.ORG, and have enjoyed my time here so far. I have a question I would like to ask the married members of ADISC. Of course the single people are also welcome to chime in, but I am really looking to the married people for answers.
My situation is this: I have been married for about a year and a half now. My wife knew about my AB/DL side before we were ever engaged. I have been honest with her about all aspects of my diaper activities. And not to put too fine of a point to it, both my wife and I are involved in church (I know many of you already understand what kind of a spin that can put on things).
Anyhow, like I said, I've been married for a year and a half, moved from my home state of Ohio, leaving all my family and friends and everything behind to move to Wisconsin (where the wife has a house, which had been on the market but never sold. She hasn't come right out and told me she doesn't approve of my diaper activities, but I can tell she doesn't approve of it. She has gone as far as saying she is fine with it, but she thinks it all stems a troubled past I had, and that she doesn't want it (the diapers) to be a reminder of any of that. I have tried to do away with all my diapers and everything related to AB/DL, but find I am not feeling like I am being true to myself in the process. Well, recently I went out and bought a pack of diapers, and she found them. Today she made two statements that raised some concerns in my mind. The first was "I don't know what to do, or how to handle this",. and the second was "You're not ready to give them up are you?". She was calm when we were talking, but still, the questions made me think and so I am here asking:
Has anyone on here ever lost a marriage or had problems in their marriage due to their AB/DL'ism? How / what did you do to handle it? And thanks in advance guys for your answers.