I like to read, and so I do, a lot. And I have noticed a trend in ABDL fiction, alot of sex/sexual behavior and bondage/BDSM play to an incredible degree. I like sex, I like BDS (not really into S&M...at all, really), and I really like the idea of taking care of an *B. However, I could not let those things touch, at all, really. Thus, I have concluded that I am a sugar and sparkles, would-be-ruining-future-adults-if-with-physical-toddlers-via-over-cattering caretaker/mommy. I would really need to keep *B play and any sexual what not as far away from each other as possible.
To sum it up, as far as I desire it to be, the baby is the baby unless (s)he is not being the baby.
So, here's my question: Is it possible for future relations with a *BDL to have a deviding line between other fetishes/overt sexual overtones? Or am I hoping for the irrational?