Actually the third choice would be messy. Which do you like best Clean, Wet, Messy, or Wet and Messy.
For me it has to be a tie between Clean and Wet. Clean diapers feel good because there fresh and soft and bulky. Wet diapers feel good because there warm and wet. When i pee in my diaper while wearing tight briefs and just flood the diaper the underwear sometimes forms the perfect shaped wet diaper that feels amazing when you rub it.
I think clean diapers look better then wet diapers. But i like the feel of both clean and wet diapers, what do you like?