I have an odd question that has been bugging me and I wanted to get some other opinions. I live in South Dakota which as you can probably guess not very many *B/DLs live or would never dream of hinting at being one. Although I noticed there are a couple on ADISC. But I have always dreamed of meeting someone just to talk about struggles and other stuff. This brings me to my question. In the past year or two I have suspected that my cousin could be one. I am not positive though because my information so far isn't conclusive.
The things that led me to believe this are somewhat weird so don't judge. When we were younger I remember she ran around and was acting like this piece of cloth was a diaper and chased everyone trying to put a diaper on them (we were pretty young 4-7 years old or so), also at one point I was looking for something in her room and I looked under her bed and there was a pair of her underwear that she had wet and hid. This was weird because we were probably ten to twelve years old and it seems pretty old to have an accident not to mention she didn't hide any pants and her sheets weren't wet so she must have done it when she was awake. Also, there are some small things but she is a girl so it is hard to tell. She has a pretty babyish attitude at times, wears very vibrant colors, and has stuffed animals.
So my question is knowing that information is it enough to think that she could be without doing anything creepy like snooping in her stuff. Also, should I confront her about it or just not take the chance? The only reason I care is that it would be really nice to have someone I know to talk to about stuff in person.