then I urge you to form a group around the faith-based community you are in.
Be you Catholic, Mormon, Sunni, Shi-a, Spaghetti-monstery, whatever.
Inside such a group is probably the least drama-evoking place to debate or discuss church doctrine, your theology, or to write heresies.
If I can refer to the usual plethora of Christian churches, it strikes me a lot of people - padded, gay, furry... typical adiscers in brief... wrestle with their beliefs and the counsel of their church over sexual sins, and other things supposedly laid out in the Bible, moral truths, moral absolutes.
Faith can be a light in the fog, a source of strength and inspiration, and the only thing holding back suicide. If you are in this camp the last thing I want to see is your faith damaged by well-intentioned people who would destroy it.
On the other hand the way you are led to understand a church's teachings may be at odds with how and what you believe; the holy books actually say little on masturbation and gaity: definitely not enough for this day and age.
One thing about adisc, or any support site is it relies on the usefulness of people coming to talk with their own kind; so I figure Mormons, Buddhists, Catholics, any, may find it useful to talk to others who can understand their issues first hand, who see things from a similar perspective.
So go forth and multiply the number of the groups - and there may you find friends, who understand that bit better and deeper.